Role Play For Fantasy Fun

What’s your fantasy?  We all have some kind of sexual fantasy we’d like to play out. Fantasy is a healthy way to allow ourselves to be someone different &, therefore, act in a different way. Taking on a new role in a fantasy gives us permission to try something our “normal” self wouldn’t do. Playing out a fantasy is a great way to spice up your relationship & your sex life.

Now some people REALLY get into fantasy. They take on a persona that is totally opposite of who they are regularly with their partner. Sometime one person takes on a role & other times both take on roles. The roles might be to play football hero, cheerleader, island native, gypsy dancer, cop, fireman (or woman), or bedroom nurse.

There are those who like to use fantasy for carrying out specific sexual activities such as using bondage.  Many couples explore the use of wrist & ankle cuffs, blindfolds, & other restraints. These can be carried out in a light-hearted way to allow one partner to tease & tantalize the other with touching, tickling, & light spanking as an erotic way of building sexual excitement.

Of course, there are those who take bondage to an advanced level where one is the dominate partner & the other is the submissive partner. This is something that couples need to discuss to determine how far each is willing to go with the act.  Many find this very exciting & erotic. This type of action is agreed upon by both people & both know how far they want to go.

A fantasy doesn’t have to be complicated.  It could be the woman wearing lingerie, body jewelry, or a different hair style & make up. Men can wear loin cloths, silk shorts or thongs, or other costuming. It takes trust in your partner to have fun with the fantasy & not make judgements about the fantasy itself.  If it’s not comfortable for you, it will be difficult to carry out comfortably.  Fantasy should be fun & exciting for both people invloved.

So why not try a fantasy sex night & see what exciting ways you can tantalize wach other in your new persona.

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