Sexy Gift Giving Ideas: Part 1

So you want to give your loved one something special, something intimate, something sexy, but not sure exactly what to do?  We’ll explore some ideas on sexy, intimate gift giving for both men & women in a two part blog.

Let’s start with gift ideas for the ladies. The obvious items to start with would be scented lotions, powders, or sprays.  There are many different scents available so find out which scents or aromas she likes.  Make sure she’s not allergic to any of these scents.  There are many gift sets available that have a nice variety of items to choose from.  Many of these sets can be a nice way to share intimate time together as you use the oils & lotions for massage & foreplay.

Lingerie is another nice personal gift but you need to know her size & styles she is open to wearing.  Many styles of lingerie are very revealing & tantalizing for YOU but she needs to feel comfortable & attractive in it before she will wear it.  Make sure she is open to this type of intimate clothing & know what she, herself,  will feel sexy wearing.

You can go with her favorite personal lubricant as a stocking stuffer.  Find out if there is a type she would be interested in trying such as flavored lubricants or the warming lubes that heat up to touch or just blowing on them.

We don’t suggest you just give her a dildo or vibrator without knowing if this is something she does want. Does she have one already?  Do you know if she uses it alone or has she shared her dildo &/or vibrator use with you?  It could be embarrassing if she receives a vibrator or dildo if she’s never used one.

One type of vibrator to start with would be a bullet vibrator.  These are small vibrators that fit in the hand easily & are not intimidating in terms of size or use.  She can use it to massage various parts of her body & work her way to her genitals at her own pace.  They are battery powered & some are cordless.  This is an easy way to start exploring the use of a vibrator.  Then she can show you how she likes to use her new toy.

Now if you know she DOES enjoy using a vibrator or dildo, then you can introduce a type she has not tried, such as the Rabbit Vibrators, which are designed for both clitoral & vaginal stimulation.  Many are shaped especially for stimulating the G Spot & clitoris.  You could also introduce her to glass dildos.  Many will tell you there is nothing like the smooth solid feeling of a well lubed glass dildo.  Be sure to add lubricant in the gift package as vibrators & dildos need lubricant for slick, safe use.  Make sure you buy a water based lubricant with the dildo or vibrator as most oft these items are made from silicone & the material will break down with silicone lubricant.  And don’t forget extra batteries.

Then you can explore the couples kits that are geared to light bondage play. Again, make sure she is open to trying this type of sex play.  You can start with a blindfold & use the lotions or oils for a sensual massage.  Other kits have wrist or ankle cuffs to restrain movement.  You can then tease, tickle, & tantalize her slowly with the use of a feather, massage, & maybe a little light spanking.  Many find this type of play very exciting.

There are also educational DVD’s to explore new positions, techniques, & methods of sexual play.  Plus there are sex games available that help you explore each others fantasies & guide you through a variety of foreplay activities.

We’ll explore sexy gifts for men on part 2 of this series in this blog.

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